Divorce in Lebanon is no longer a surprising phenomenon, especially amidst mounting economic pressures, complex social relationships, and the absence of psychological stability. Divorce rates are rising at an alarming pace. According to “Information International,” the divorce rate in Lebanon increased from 16.1% in 2010 to around 27.6% in 2020, placing Lebanon sixth among Arab countries and reflecting a significant shift in societal attitudes toward marriage and separation.

But when does divorce become not just necessary, but even healthy?

In this context, anthropologist and media researcher Dr. Layla Chamseddine told Al Safa News:

“No one enters a marriage thinking it will end in divorce, but reality proves otherwise. Marriage is no longer immune to collapse, and we must understand the underlying reasons behind the increase in divorce cases.”

Chamseddine points out that one of the core causes of marital breakdown is the lack of effective communication. Many couples never learned how to express themselves or to respectfully listen to others. Over time, this absence of communication turns into a permanent rift that becomes difficult to heal.

She adds: “Emotional neglect, infidelity, financial stress, and high expectations of one’s partner all weaken the relationship and create a fragile environment that cannot be sustained.”

She notes that the COVID-19 pandemic, remote education and work, and financial insecurity have all led many people to reevaluate their relationships and priorities.

Beyond the psychological and social factors, the impact of domestic violence cannot be ignored, as it is a direct trigger for separation in many cases. Between September 2023 and September 2024, 15 family-related crimes were documented in Lebanon—most of the victims being women at the hands of their husbands or male relatives. This shocking reality imposes a major responsibility on society and its legal and social institutions to protect victims and provide a safe environment for them.

Despite all these reasons, Dr. Chamseddine warns against deciding to divorce be based on momentary emotions or stress.

“Some relationships can be repaired,” she says, “if there is adequate support and a genuine willingness to change on both sides. That's why it's essential to seek marital or psychological counseling before taking such a life-altering decision.”

On another note, the changing role of women in Lebanese society has greatly contributed to the rise in divorce rates. Many women today are financially and emotionally independent, and divorce no longer means poverty or dependence. Feminist organizations and human rights groups have also provided tangible support to women during and after divorce, encouraging many to overcome their fears.

Social media’s influence is also significant. While it offers more opportunities for interaction, it has also increased unrealistic comparisons and created a constant sense of dissatisfaction in some relationships.

One pressing challenge today is the lack of emotional preparedness for marriage. Many couples simply lack the emotional tools to manage a long-term relationship. “We are raised with the idea of marriage,” says Chamseddine, “but we are not taught how to live within a relationship. We know how to choose clothes or a career, but not how to choose a life partner.”

She explains that emotional education should begin in schools and universities, covering communication skills, self-awareness, and relationship literacy. She also suggests making it mandatory for engaged couples to attend short educational workshops—just like certain administrative procedures—to help reduce future divorce rates.

On the other hand, a woman in her thirties shared with “Al Safa News” her divorce story after years of emotional suffering:

“I stayed in a harmful relationship for years because I feared society’s judgment. Today, I live in peace. Divorce isn’t the end, as some people think. It’s the beginning of a new life I deserve.”

In the end, there is no single answer to the rise in divorce rates. However, what is certain is that this phenomenon represents a growing social challenge that demands awareness and education. As Chamseddine concludes:

“Successful marriage doesn’t just depend on love, but on respect, communication, and the ability to resolve conflict. If these elements are missing, divorce may be the first step toward a healthier and more balanced life.”